Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label stories. Show all posts

Monday, March 16, 2015

Welcome Little Wonder: The Details

This picture was taken just 24 hours before it all began...we had no idea what incredible grace and help we would be receiving from Him in the hours to come...


This is my attempt at a succinct, not containing many emotions or thoughts along the way, account of Moriah's birth story.

March 2, 2015

12:30 a.m.: I woke up after an hour of sleep with contractions that were 5-6 minutes apart and one minute long. I went downstairs to take Moriah's birthday cake out of the freezer. Thinking we might have a long road before us, I decided to stay in bed and let Dan sleep for as long as I could stand it. I used an app. to time contractions until 3:30 a.m.

3:30 a.m.: Felicity came in our room...a pattern that began about a month ago much to our dismay on the heels of a newborn arriving soon! Dan took her to her room, and I decided to tell him I was in labor. I continued to track contractions and Dan rubbed my back between them.

5:50 a.m. : No longer able to comfortably stay in bed, I got up and walked our room during contractions and sat on the exercise ball in-between. They were getting closer together and a bit shorter. Dan called our doula-sister-friend, Cheryl, and told her we were in labor. I continued to focus by walking through contractions but added a low moaning sound with each exhale. Dan showered, made me orange Gatorade (thank you friends who sent the powder over a year ago...it is still blessing us) and threw some things together for the hospital.

6:30 a.m.: Cheryl arrived and heard me upstairs. Dan later told me she said, "Oh no. It's too early for her to be moaning and crying." I was thinking the same thing and began to be afraid this would be a repeat of Felicity's birth...going to the hospital with a whole day of labor ahead. I got in the shower to rinse off and told Dan with much fear, "I don't think I can do it. I'm going to need the medicine." Felicity woke up and Dan sent her downstairs to Cheryl. Dan helped me out of the shower. I said, "Go get Cheryl." Dan went downstairs to feed Felicity breakfast, and Cheryl came up to help me dress and let me lean into her through contractions. I began to feel a new pressure which I hadn't had before. I took one step at the beginning of each contraction and felt the pressure move through me until it went through my foot and into the floor. I was crying. Cheryl said, "We need to go." She called the doctor to let him know to expect us soon.

7:15 Dan, Felicity, Cheryl and I piled into the car. I'm crying and saying "I'm so sorry.",  "Thank you", "Lord help me.", "Jesus, Help." as the car gets on the bumpy sand road. When I feel a contraction coming, I say, "Stop the car." At some point Felicity throws out a "Good job, Mommy."

Halfway there the doctor calls Cheryl's cell phone, "Where are you? The whole hospital is waiting for you!" (in Arabic of course). We get on a smoother road. I tell Dan just go as fast as you can. Don't stop when they come. During a contraction Felicity yells, "Stop the car, Daddy!" We keep going.

7:30 a.m.: We arrive at the clinic at 7:30. Three nurses are waiting for us. Cheryl and I follow them to the delivery room stopping for 2 or 3 contractions along the way. Dan parks, does paperwork, and is finally sent to room 102, our recovery room.


The midwife tells me to lie on the delivery table. I am terrified at how long I might be there since walking seems to be the best way to handle contractions. She checks me during a contraction (worst.pain.ever) and tells us I am at a 5 and fully effaced. My heart sinks. Fear creeps in, five is not too far, but Cheryl is insisting that the look on the midwife's face was very optimistic. 2-3 contractions later, the midwife breaks my water during a contraction (oh wait, maybe this is the worst.pain.ever.).
The doctor comes in and starts dressing as if this baby is coming soon. Cheryl calls Darryll and tells him to get to the hospital. She also calls Dan and says get in here as soon as Darryll arrives.

The nurses turn the light on at the little baby table. The doctor checks me and says I'm at a nine. Strangely, my left hand stiffens, closes shut, and I'm unable to open it. They put oxygen up to my nose and give me a shot of calcium. My hand opens. It's time to push...no more than 10 pushes later and...

8:30 a.m. Moriah Ann is born! 7.2 lbs., brown hair, blue eyes, and very few cries.

 Dan sneaks in just after she is born and actually gets to hold her and see her up close more than I do initially.
The doctor brings Felicity in to meet her baby sister after Darrell tells him Felicity wants to know what color the baby's hair is.
9:30 a.m.: We are taken to our recovery room. Sometime before that Moriah ate like a pro. This is how they bundled me up to go upstairs. 

9:30 a.m.-6:15p.m.: Recovery. The midwife placed a 20 pound bag of rocks on my stomach and pumped pitosin into an IV to shrink the uterus and get any remaining blood out. The doctor ordered another direct shot of pitosin just to be sure everything was clear. This process lasted an hour or so with me crying and begging them to stop.

Sometime after the bag-o-rocks I felt I needed the bathroom. I tried sitting up with one nurse and felt extremely dizzy. They called two others in and kicked out Dan, Cheryl, Felicity and Darrell. Once we were in the bathroom, I was crying and trying to communicate that I was dizzy. I put my head between my knees (standard practice for dizziness as far as I'm concerned). They are all giggling at me and go out of the bathroom. The next thing I know I'm waking up to the smell of rubbing alcohol with the same three nurses around me. At this point I can't communicate that I'm still dizzy, and I faint again. The second time I wake up, I stop trying to communicate with them and just moan, "Cheryl, Cheryl, Cheryl" as loud as I can muster until she comes through the door to my great relief. They take me back to bed, and I try to sleep. They put fluids and glucose in an IV for me and bring me some meat in the form of a fish to bring back my strength.
                                     
6:00 p.m.: Dan goes down to pay our bill: $400 or so, and we are given the okay to go home: 


We all pile into the car yet again marveling at the road we traveled since the wee hours of the morning until now.
The evening felt like spring: brilliant sunlight kissing the olive groves, blue skies with wisps of white, and ear to ear smiles and wide-eyed wonder at the Giver of new life...


Monday, March 9, 2015

Welcome little Wonder


 As I held our little Moriah in the very same room I walked with the consuming pain that brought her forth just over one week ago, I was ushered back to the sense of wonder and a sense of being held by Him and His people, that has been our song throughout her story. 
Her story is already full, full of grace, full of Yahweh's handwoven detailed touches, full of much more than we ever asked or imagined. 
We are grateful.We are in awe. We stand in wonder of our God and how he has carried us amidst the unknowns. 
We look upon our little wonder, Moriah Ann, and cannot help but look up to her Maker and give Him glory.
For each piece of her story we give thanks...
The Details: just the bare bones birth story
The Divine: how God met us 
The Doula: a HUGE thank you to our doula-sister-friend, Cheryl 

Saturday, May 22, 2010

Back in It...

Okay, so today as I was checking out one of my friend's blogs I noticed on the sidebar that the last time I posted was over a month ago. That made me sad, and I just wasn't okay with this realization so....I told myself I just needed to post something today...AnYtHiNg...just to get back in it because I've been missing this hobby of mine, and I just can't seem to post because I feel like there's a long list in my mind of things I ShOuLd post, but I haven't had the time to be thoughtful, creative, concerned with grammar etc....So... since I don't have the time to think much about it, I'm not going to fix my ridiculously long run on sentence above. Instead I'm just going to post my something without making it perfect because if it has to be perfect I won't be posting until school's out, and I just can't accept that :)

So here's my post...
One day in April I came home from work to find that Dan received free tickets to Da' Bulls...
Upon arriving we were super excited to take our picture with Michael Jordan :)


....and this guy with his humongous arm span...

Of course going to an event like this is never really free...nachos are a must...


We couldn't believe it when Scottie Pippen made his Hall of Fame appearance...the crowd went wild and so did we...


To top it off the Bulls even won :) and this guy had his all time top score...

It was an unexpected night of fun even though I almost cried when everyone was laughing at the guy on the Celtics who accidentally scored for the Bulls...It was so sad :(

The End

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Paradise and Peanut Butter Pie...

Once upon a time in a far, faraway land... a LoVeLy little family took my love and me to a place very near to what I imagine PaRaDiSe might be...


This MaGeStiC place was overflowing with food fit for a KiNg...


PooLs stretching for miles and miles...



BaLlrOoMs made for being swept off your feet...


...Palms and SuNshIne as far as the eye could see...


...SoOtHiNg melodies...


...and the most MaGniFiceNt desserts on planet earth.




As I sit here staring out my window at the BleAk Chicago sky, this place seems like a DiStaNt dream to me now. I thought about how I might somehow transport myself back to this time and place and escape the reality of WiNteR for awhile.

My first thought was... ChOcoLaTe PeAnUt BuTteR pie...a life changing experience given to me by my sister at the aforementioned place of paradise...

But where could I go to attempt to recreate this moment in time that seems so far out of my grasp? To whom could I turn but to none other than the PiOnEeR WoMaN...I was pleased as punch to find a recipe for this ChOcoLaTe PeAnUt BuTtEr pie on her site...In fact it's chilling in my FrIdGiDaiRe at this very moment!
...And I'm happy to say that in the time it took me to relive my West Palm Beach BrEaKeRs experience via blogging, I'm ready to relive it once again with this DeLicIouS treat...


Afterall, one can always dream...

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Kids say the funniest things...

FrIdaY afternoon, our amazing ThiRd GrAdE BuDdiEs were making their weekly visit. The BuDdiEs were hard at work finishing up their How To books...you know, How to Make a PBJ, How to Make a Paper Airplane, etc. My FiFtH GrAdErS were supposed to be leading their third grade buddies in the effort.

As I walked around the room to ensure that everyone was on task, I stopped at a table of four boys working together on their book...well, one boy was working on the book while the others were being SuPpOrTivE observers :).

In an attempt to EnCouRaGe a TeAm effort, I simply said, "The whole group is supposed to be working on the book. Why are ThReE of you just watching G do all the work?"

Their response: "We're taking turns coloring the book 'cuz we already stapled the pages together."

My response: A PuZzLeD look followed by...."That's why you're supposed to StApLe it once it's FiNiSheD so that each of you can work on a page instead of just one person working on OnE page while everyone else sits and does NoThiNg".

Their response: Completely PuZzleD...

My response: A look of DiSbEliEf because no one in the group has thought to solve this problem by taking out the staples and passing out the pages so that everyone can be On-TaSk and the project can be completed in an efficient manner.

I calmly take the book from G and begin pulling out the staples by HaNd because I'm HaPhaZarD like that.

Their response: Utter AmAzeMenT. Seriously...You would have thought I'd just made something VaNisH into thin air...

One of the students who appeared to be the most puzzled KriNklEd his face as if seriously PoNdeRinG the matter and said in a high pitched tone of utter PeRplExiTy...
How'd you do that Mrs. Bailey?....
Did you have trainin' to do that or somethin'?


My Response: Of course I ErUpTeD into laughter at the thought of me and every other teacher in the WoRLd receiving training on how to pull staples out of paper by hand...as if this is some high-level SkIlL that all teachers must show competence in before being crowned with the HoNoR of teaching these little ones.

Through the LaUgHteR I replied, "Actually, no, I didn't get training in this. Believe it or not I just figured it out on my own."

CoNfuSioN still on his face, the student replied, "oh" and began working on his part of the book.

In these sMalL MoMeNts I'm ReMiNdeD of the great JoY found in what I do. I'm EnCouRaGed that even though my job can sometimes seem ChAoTiC, out of control, and OvErwHeLmInG to me, my clientele still think I'm a HiGhLy QuAliFieD GeNiUs, and I'll take that any day....even if it is just for tearing staples out of a book by hand.

Friday, September 18, 2009

A Garden Story

Once upon a time there was a LaDy named KaTiE who dreamed of having a GaRdEn in the NeIghBorHoOd CoMpOuNd...

So she talked her husband into digging up the sod with her in their CoMpOuNd yard...

After a bit of SwEaT and ToiL, the plot of land was ready for Dr. BeArD and his TiLleR...

A few days later fellow CoMpoUnDeRs joined the effort...



After a bit of TrEe BeArDiNg...



...AmErIcaN GoThiCinG...


...And yes, PlaNtiNg...


The NeIgHboRhOoD waited in ExPecTatiOn to see what GoD would bring forth from the EaRtH...

Only time would tell if their SoWinG would indeed ReAp a BoUntiFuL HaRveSt...
And this concludes Part I of our GaRdeN story...to be continued soon and very soon...

Friday, August 7, 2009

On Blogging and Getting Over Myself...

Since I've started BlOgGiNg, things in life that at one time might have HoRriFieD or EmBaRRaSseD me have morphed into opportunities to LaUgH HyStEriCalLy, not take myself so SeRiouSly, and be GraTefuL to those in my life who make it far more InTeResTinG than I could ever manage on my own.

Allow me to explain by sharing a somewhat recent incident that occurred at our cousin David and Heather's wedding. It think it IlluStrAteS my point BeAutIfuLly...

The location was GoRgEOuS...






The BrIdE was RaDiAnT...




The company was DeLigHtFuL...















And to top it all off, I had my HaNdsOmE HusBaNd at my side and a NeW dress I had been saving for the PeRfeCt occasion...



The night was nearly MaGiCaL as we LaDiEs enjoyed TwIliGht in the garden...



Then suddenly, the UnThInKaBle happened, and my state of SeReNiTy quickly turned into this...



ReD, that's right, I said ReD wine SpLaTteReD all over my brand new dress! In great confusion, I turned to see my extremely apologetic brother BeN and his nearly EmPtY wine glass sitting on the table.

Now you see... at one time in my life, this incident would have HaD the potential to RuIn my entire evening, BuT this time, instead of being EmBaRrAsSeD and HoRriFiEd, I found myself enjoying the moment and taking advantage of this opportunity fully realizing its BloGgInG potential...See what I mean...


All I could do was LaUgH as my SwEeT sister tidied me up!



Having recently blogged about said sister, she did this dirty job with JoY realizing that doing so would most DeFiNitEly give her another appearance on yet another Blog Post... Thank you for your HuMbLe service dear sister...





In the end, it turns out a bit of SoDa WaTeR and SaLt does WoNdeRs on ReD WiNe dress disasters. I danced the night away without a care in the world...



And thanks to my place in the BloGoSpheRe, I can sincerely say words that at one time in my life would have been UnImaGinAbLe:

ThAnK YoU Ben for spilling red wine on my FaVoRitE, NeVeR BeFoRe WorN DrEsS.

I dedicate this post to you and consider myself forever InDeBteD to you for giving me a MeMoRaBle story to share instead of the standard slideshow of pictures I would have come up with on my own.